*    Launch Daylite, while holding down the [option] key.
*    If you see the 'Connect To Database' screen,
       close it by clicking on the 'Cancel' button.
*    Go to the Daylite menu -> Preferences -> Launch
*    Under 'When launching the Application', select
      'Connect to Default Database'
*    Close the Preferences window.
*    Go to the File menu -> select 'Connect to Database'
*    Make sure that the right computer name or IP,
      Database name, and your username and password credentials
      are entered.
*    If this username has a password,  click on the 'Add to Keychain'
      check-box
*    Then check to ensure that the 'Make Default Database' option
      is checked.
*    Click 'Login'

The next time you launch Daylite, you should automatically be logged into
this default database.